

Milonga el Abrazo with Cuarteto ¡Ahora, Sí!
Sunday April 20 1p — 6p
Please join Jordana, Connor, and Cuarteto ¡Ahora, Sí! for a friendly matinée milonga in a beloved local setting. Connection class with Jordana, 1:00p—2:00p. Milonga, 2:00p—6:00p with one set of live music. Jordana dj's half traditional orquestas and half contemporary tango orquestas.
Let's make it a delightful afternoon of great music, awesome embraces, smorgasbord, wine, friends, and fun!
Tango Therapy
Love your dance. Love your life.
Do you want to claim your own creative voice? Do you want to enjoy meaningful erotic relationships of equal partners, on your own terms? Would you like to embrace yourself and others with more compassion, more intimacy, and more understanding?
I help clients embrace their own literal and metaphorical dances with curiosity and compassion. I hold a safe space for you to connect with your own journey, your own body, and your own artistic voice. Because we learn best when we play, when we explore, and when we trust ourselves as the authority on what's right for us.
I emphasize active listening, and developing compassionate, clear, and trustworthy communication between partners.
I offer tango therapy and counseling, for individuals and couples, online and in person. It's a whole-intelligence way of learning about our relationships with ourselves and with others, becoming mindful of our patterns, and exploring all the factors that come into play in all relationships. Trust, hope, fear, power, faith, curiosity, control, loss, gain, compassion, joy, vulnerability, social mores, old family stories, communication, need, desire, light and shadow...everything that defines us and everything that defines our relationships shows up when we dance. And many stories that are hard or impossible to reach with words come to light and evolve quickly when we explore them through dance. The mindfully-embodied world of therapeutic tango can transform your life if you choose to invite it in. And I'm here to guide you through it.
I am both a psychotherapist (CA AMFT#146160, CA APCC #16298) and a veteran tango teacher. California-based clients seeking ongoing tango therapy may work with me via the Center for Mindful Psychotherapy. Clients in all locations seeking short-term counseling may work with me privately.
If you are curious and would like to discuss how tango therapy or counseling can transform your life, please message me to schedule a free fifteen-minute phone call today!I help clients embrace their own dances with curiosity and compassion. I hold a safe space for you to connect with your own journey, your own body, and your own artistic voice. Because we learn best when we play, when we explore, and when we trust ourselves as the authority on what's right for us.Some places I have taught include: Aosta, Berlin, Catania, Chicago, Lausanne, London, Los Angeles, Madison, New Orleans, Portland, San Francisco, Santa Cruz, Seattle, and Tarbes.
Primary tango teachers include: Sebastian Arce, Jorge Torres, Virginia Pandolfi, Guillermo García, Samantha Dispari, Nikita Gerdt, Albano Goldenberg, and Ariadna Naveira.
My practice is informed by many cross-disciplinary in-depth practices, including but not limited to: the Alexander Technique, ballet, Feldenkrais, folk dance, Hakomi, martial arts, modern dance, Gyrotonics, structural integration, swimming, yoga, and Zen.
Upcoming Playshops and Retreats
You have enough work in your life already. Let's play.
I facilitate tango playshops where we get curious about connecting with ourselves and with each other. We experiment with focus and intention. We investigate our personal relationships with giving, taking, and sharing. We explore how where we put our attention affects our intimate conversations with our partners. And, most of all, we play. Because the greatest discoveries happen during play.
While these playshops are for tango dancers, they are not about high heels, ochos, or me telling you where to put your feet. They're about you asking yourself what's going on inside you and outside you, and noticing how you feel. They're about investigating how we interact with ourselves and with the outside world, and discovering enjoyable new ways of connecting.
Because tango isn't about where you put your feet. It's about where you put your mind, your heart, and your soul.
Calendar
Events and opportunities for in-person mentoring. Please message me to schedule a session.
April 2025
San Francisco April 9 — North Beach Milonga — Dj
Victoria BC April 11 — 13
San Francisco April 20 — Milonga el Abrazo with Cuarteto ¡Ahora Sí! — Organizer, teacher, dj
Seattle April 23 — 27
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May
San Francisco May 1 — Larkspur Práctica — Dj
May 11 — Milonga el Abrazo with Alexander Technique Teacher Elyse Shafarman — Organizer, teacher, dj
May 15 — Larkspur Práctica — Dj
May 17 — She Comes First — Ladies' tantric tango retreat — teacher
Los Angeles May 22 — 26
Seattle May 29 — Dance Underground Práctica — Dj
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June
Seattle June 1 — Milonga Madera Verde — Dj
Oakland June 14 — Milonga la Mirada Début — Organizer, teacher, dj
San Francisco June 15 — Milonga el Abrazo — Organizer, teacher, dj
June 22 — Playing with Desire — Couples' tantric tango retreat — teacher
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July
Seattle July 25 — 27
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October
Albuquerque October 30 — November 2
DJ
I love dj'ing milongas and private events. I create nights where everyone enjoys dancing to music they love, connects with themselves and with others, and goes home sated. I provide a balanced arc of old favourites and delicious surprises. Let me take your dancers on a journey of play, discovery, and seduction.
Bay Area: The Allegro, Harvey Milonga, North Beach Milonga, Milonga Tukis...and of course my own Milonga el Abrazo.
Elsewhere: Chicago, London, New Orleans, Madison, Valle d'Aosta, and more.
Tango Clothes
I had nothing to wear so I designed and made it myself. I could make something for you too.
Cotton jersey set in yellow
Cotton jersey shirt in pink
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